What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?
Last Updated: 16.06.2025 07:18
12- What’s your favorite food? What’s your least favorite?
Any that are a turn off?
What’s the longest time you gone without having sex, after, having it? How much time between the others?
37- Do you like your name? If you could change it, what would you change it too?
30- Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?
Can you have multiple orgasms? Are you able to have different kinds of orgasms?
Has anyone tried bestiality and been caught?
37~ What is the biggest age gap between you and one of your sexual partners? Who? Care to Share?
Nurse/Patient Celebrity/Fan
29- How superstitious are you?
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36~ What is your favorite time of day to have sex/make love?
3- What’s your favorite smell? Do you a least favorite?
Master/Slave Boss/Maid
20~ Have you ever cheated? Care to Share? If you have, why do you believe that you did?
34- Ever been to a concert? What was your favorite? Who would you like to see?
11- What's your favorite restaurant? What’s your least favorite?
Which current F1 drivers should switch teams based on historical patterns?
Will you kiss after your partner has gone down on you? Swallow or spit semen?
9- Is there something you’ve always wanted to ask me but you’re afraid?
27- What was/ is nickname? Does it have a meaning behind it?
Fruits and Veggies Boost Sleep Quality - Neuroscience News
Doctor/Nurse Stripper/Client
14 – Is it ok to talk to you while you are on the toilet? 15- Is it ok to eat while on the toilet?
57~ Describe the perfect penis/vagina. Does size really matter? What is too big/small?
Why do many women like tall men?
71~ Would you give your partner a hand or foot job? Would you receive one?
12~ Have you ever had a one-nightstand? Was it good, fun, satisfying? Would you do it again?
6- Do you have dreams? Can you remember them? What do you usually dream about?
Why do people have polyamorous relationships?
A comprehensive questionnaire, this should be a fun exercise to get to know each other. Try to give as much detail as possible when answering questions. You can go through this together and talk about each question or fill out the questionnaire as completely as you can and once you are done, go through each question together. If you have been together for a while, it is also fun to try to answer the questions for your partner. Remember this should be fun, so if you do not wish to answer a question you can “PASS” and not answer. Both should answer honestly and without judgement. (This is important, without judgement) I hope this helps you get closer and strengthens your relationship… You can learn a lot about the other person… and yourself…
Do you shave/trim your pubic hair? For you guys do you shave your balls?
29~ What are some things that turn you off? What is your biggest turn off?
How can I handle my distrust and jealousy for my partner?
Over time has your thoughts on sex changed?
9- If you could have three wishes, what would they be? Why?
19- What’s your favorite fairytale? What’s your least favorite?
38~ Share your most embarrassing sexual memory?
23~ What do you believe is required to have a successful and healthy relationship? (This is important, take your time, and really think about this)
32~ What are your favorite foreplay activities? Kissing/Touching? Food? Toys? Role Play? Others?
Do crossdressers like wearing pantyliners and tampons in their butts?
Any that are a turn off?
92~ Everyone needs a “safe” word. What is yours?
25- Fight, Flight, or Freeze? What is your typical response? Does it change with different settings?
How did you know you weren't the narc?
26~ What side of the bed do you sleep on?
50~ How many children do you have? What are their ages?
Would you allow me to clean every part of your body with my soapy hands and fingers?
11- List at least 5 things on your bucket list. Have you done any of them already?
91~ Would you ever go into an adult book/toys store with me? Would you buy something?
10~ How many dates are necessary before you to have sex with someone?
Piecing, tattoo, color hair, dress up a certain way, it could be anything… Shave me…
Prisoner/Prison Guard Landlord/Tenant
81~ Do you have any kinks and/or fetishes?
2- What’s your favorite color? Do you a least favorite?
16- What’s your favorite vacation you have been on? What’s your least favorite? Where would you like to go?
46~ Where do you want to be in your life in a year? How about 5 years? How about 10 years?
15- What bad habit do you wish you could quit? Do you have any addictions?
34~ Do you like the lights on or off during sex?
39~ What are your love languages?
What is your view on sex? Meaning, When/Where/ How often/
39~ Share your top three favorite/best memorable sexual experiences. Want to repeat them?
28- What are some things that people do that irritate you?
Repairman/Lonely Wife Virgin/Experienced
3~ How old were you when you got to 3rd base? (Touching and stimulating the genitals. Oral sex)
14- Do you have a “Deal Breaker”, anything that your partner has done or will do, a boundary that once crossed you are done with the relationships?
64~ When was your very first orgasm? When was your first from having sex? Care to share?
33~ Share your thoughts on what you believe great sex/love making is to you? How long should it last?
51~ Are you willing to play adult games with your partner?
How old are you? Male or Female?
10- What is your favorite family tradition? What’s your least favorite?
26- Do you cry while watching a movie or TV show? Which one did you cry the hardest?
Would you ever want to be woken up with oral and/or intercourse?
16~ Do you believe in “soulmates”? Have you found yours? Who? Care to Share?
Can you Deep Throat? Do you like the taste of yourself?
5- Have you ever been hypnotized? Would you allow yourself to be?
3- What was the most surprising thing you’ve learned about me throughout our relationship?
Nothing too Serious
87~ Do you like it when I used my teeth (lightly)? How do you feel about hickeys?
3- Should Pluto still be considered a planet? 4- How about smoking?
25~ How do you feel about PDA? (Public Display of Affection)
79~ How important is it to have a partner that will help and encourage you to fulfill your fantasies and desires?
4- For a pet, Cat, dog or other?
88~ Do you prefer me to be naked or in lingerie, PJ’s when you are sleeping?
8- What's something unexpected that turns you on that I do to you? Don’t be shy now, I really want to know.
33- If you could visit any time period, when would you pick? Please explain why?
60~ How important is oral sex? Do you like receiving? Do you like giving?
32- What's your greatest talent? Can I see it right now?
7-What do I do in bed that drives you wild? How about, what turns you off?
7- What if a person smells a certain way? 8- How about smoking?
58~ Have you ever taken Nude or Hard-core photos and/or videos? Care to Share?
6- What’s your favorite TV series? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
Does the thought excite you? Care to share?
Escort/Client Job Applicant/Hiring Manager
13- What is the craziest/scariest thing you've ever done?
74~ Have you ever had sex while others watched? Have you ever watched others have sex?
Teacher/Student Stranger/One Night Stand
43~ If you could write up to a one-page letter to yourself, what would you say and what age would you send it?
Would you do it again, and would you rather 2 females or 2 males?
67~ Do you like it when your partner moans and/or is vocal during sex?
19~ Who/when was your first “heartbreak”?
82~ Do you have any fantasies involving Role-Playing?
73~ Have you ever had public sex? Care to share? Have you ever had an orgasm in a public place?
Meaning if you ever say it no matter how long we have been together or where we are in the moment…
Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Quality Time - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts
84~ How do you feel about reading/listening to adult stories?
7~ How many times in one day have you had sex? Who/When/Where? Care to Share?
5- Do you fold or scrunch? (toilet paper while you wipe) 6- How about bad hygiene?
10- Do I have a habit or quirk that you find cute or weird? How about an annoying habit of mine?
What have you learned about yourself that you did not before this?
33- Beach or Mountains? Or is there another place to like better?
11- Is there something you would like me to do, in any area of our relationship that I have not done, or you want more of?
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Model/Photographer Police/Criminal
76~ Have you had a threesome? Care to Share?
Do you like it when they show and tell you what they want?
Do you think this brought you closer together?
18- What’s your favorite way to relax after a long day? What’s your least favorite?
31~ What do you find most attractive sexually and non-sexually in a man/woman? (Body and Personality)
49~ If you could, would you want to be the opposite sex for a day, week, or year?
3- What Superhero or Superpower would you want to be/have?
20- What’s your favorite candy? What’s your least favorite?
52~ What are your hobbies?
Have you ever? Care to Share?
35- Do you like playing board or cards game? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
47~ Have you ever thought about trying tantric sex? (Not sure? Look it up)
69~ Are you willing to have sex while you or your partner is on their period? How about oral sex?
1~ How old were you when you had your first kiss? Who? Care to Share?
6~ How many sexual partners have you had? Can you name them all? Can you remember when and where?
17- Have you ever done drugs? Which ones? How often?
38- If you won the Lottery and got 200 million dollars, what would you do with all that money?
63~ Is having an orgasm important every time you have sex? Have you ever faked an orgasm?
If YES, was it with 2 men or 2 women? Did you enjoy it?
7- What are your thoughts on religion? Is there an afterlife?
Do you prefer your partner’s pubic hair trimmed, Landing Strip, full bush or completely bare?
14- What is an embarrassing moment in your life? How about your most embarrassing?
* Which of the following turns you on the most? Do you have any not on this list? Care to share?
50~ Where would you like to be touched more? Do you have a place that you want to be touched, that no one has, or has only happened a couple times? How about less?
93~ Now that this really long questionnaire is over, one last question, ok maybe 3…
30~ What's something unexpected that turns you on?
Will you cheat again? How can, you be sure? Define what cheating is to you.
4~ How old were you when you lost your virginity? Is it a good memory? Who? Care to Share? (be detailed)
These go from easy to answer, to OMG, you really want to know that?! to some serious thought. Take your time and have fun with this. The past is the past… it got you two here together…
13- How about having a certain hair cut/style?
22~ What is the best pickup line anyone has ever used on you? What was the worst?
I would allow you to do it… What would you do to me?
62~ Have you used adult toys?
Foot fetishes, Role-playing, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and submission, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Furries, Humiliation, Gender/Age play, Cuckolding, Gagging, etc.?
44~ Have you ever been tied up during sex? What are your thoughts on bondage?
1- Down the back or over the top? (The toilet paper roll) 2- Up or down? (The toilet seat)
10- List 5 of your top pet peeves.
7- What’s your favorite book? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
(Strip poker, truth or dare, spin the bottle, Naked Twister, adult card games Etc.) Have you ever? Care to Share?
41~ Are there moments in your past that you would want to change? Please share 3 of them.
40~ What’s the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex?
85~ If you gave me a “free Pass” to have me do anything for one hour, what would you want me to do to you?
51~ What tends to bring a smile to your face?
17~ What is the average length of your relationship(s)? What was the longest? Why did they end?
14~ When was the first time you said, “I Love You”? (romantically) Did you mean it? Who? Care to Share?
8- What are your thoughts on politics?
68~ Would you ever get your partner up from bed by using oral sex and/or intercourse?
8~ How many times a week would you like to engage in sexual activities? What is the average for you now?
65~ Describe the best orgasm you’ve ever had? Care to share?
If you say it, I will stop, and we can talk about it when you are ready.
47~ What would be your dream job and why?
89~ Do you like taking showers together?
27~ If you could freeze your body but not your mind at a certain age, what age would you be? Explain why.
78~ Have you ever thought about making out or having sex with someone of the same sex? Care to Share?
21- What's your favorite way to spend a weekend or time off?
How long for foreplay? Do you need to have an orgasm? Is afterplay important?
What was the longest? What was the shortest?
Is it ok for a man to perform oral sex after he has ejaculated inside of you?
If NO, would you ever have one? Would it be with 2 men or 2 women?
If you lose, are you willing to be their sex slave for a day, (anything goes)?
42~ Ever been spanked during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
44~ Care to share something about yourself that no one else knows about you?
That one or two things that made you go hmmmm, OMG or wow!
80~ Share your top three fantasies/desires. (Be detailed) 😊
2- Are you afraid of anything? (Spiders, heights, snakes, etc.) What is your greatest fear?
What is your favorite toy? Ever wanted to try a specific toy?
11~ Have you ever been caught by your parents or children or others while having sex?
43~ Ever had your hair pulled during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
Do you have a favorite? Is it ok if your partner does?
13- What’s your favorite drink? What’s your least favorite?
45~ What do you like about yourself? Rate yourself 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc....)
4- What do you like about me? Rate me 1-10. (Looks, personality, overall, etc....)
72~ Is it ok to ejaculate on your body, face, ass, breast? How about in your mouth? Is there any place not allowed?
Would/have you gotten a lap dance? Would/have you watched your partner get a lap dance?
59~ Have/do you masturbate? How often? What do you use? (Toys, Phone sex, Erotica, Hard Core, shower/water, etc) Would you, while your partner watches?
What is your favorite position? Why?
1- What’s your favorite animal? Do you a least favorite?
46~ Have you ever used furniture, or other types of things to aid you while having sex?
66~ What’s the shortest time it’s ever taken for you to have an orgasm? And the longest?
36- Do you play video games? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
55~ Would you ever go to a nude beach/resort with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
Family Relation Age Play
22- What is your favorite childhood memory? What is your least favorite?
Please share Did you stop?
Is there a smell that most people do not like that you do? Is there a smell that triggers a memory?
2- What do you remember about our first date? Rate it. Rate our first kiss. Rate our first time together.
The Ice Breaker Questions
(Dildo, vibrator, nipple clamp, cock ring, butt plug and tail, couples’ toys, pocket pussy/sleeves, Ben-wa balls, pumps, gags, strap-on, remote controlled, vibrating panties, ETC…)
4- What’s your favorite genre of music? What’s your least favorite? Is there a song that triggers a memory?
83~ How do you feel about Porn?
20- Do you have any tattoos? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
If you win, what will you make them do?
Would you mind if your partner watched it? How about together vs alone?
18- How often do you drink alcohol? What is your favorite drink?
Do you watch it? What is your favorite?
45~ How do you feel about me blindfolding you? How about blindfolding me?
19- Do/have you smoked? What do you prefer? How often?
23- What is your dream job? What was it as a child?
How do you feel about anal play? (Fingers, toys, butt plug) How do you feel about rimming? (licking)
What would you say to prove to yourself that it was really you?
21- Do you have any piercings? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
*** Random Questions ***
54~ Would you ever go skinny dipping with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
*** Questions About Me ***
49~ How many times have you been married? Why did they end?
1- What was your first impression of me? Has it changed?
9~ How many times over your lifetime do you think you have had sex so far?
6- Is there anything that I do/say that irritates you? How about makes you smile and love to hear it?
You know that I will be 100% truthful, so ask.
53~ How about wearing no panties or bra at all, while wearing a dress or skirt? How about stockings and Garter Belts?
*** Deal Breaker Questions ***
5~ When you first started having sex, was it what you thought it would be?
70~ Would/do you have/like anal sex?
9- How about not brushing their teeth or having bad breath? 10- How about if they cuss too much?
56~ Would you ever go to a strip club with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
12- What is the weirdest thing you've ever eaten?
How many times do you think you have “made love”?
15~ Have you ever been “in love”? Who? Care to Share?
9- What’s your favorite season and why? What’s your least favorite?
18~ Who/when was your first “crush”?
1- What’s your (zodiac, astrological) sign? Do you believe this has any meaning in your life?
Would /have you ever given your partner a lap dance and Striptease?
61~ How willing would you be to try new sexual positions?
11- How about if they like a certain sports team? 12-How about drinking too much?
21~ What was the best date you ever went on? What has been the worst?
8- What's your favorite flavor of ice cream? Do you a least favorite?
How about if they talk dirty and/or call you names?
31- If given a chance to be immortal, would you take it? Why?
24~ What are your expectations in a relationship? (I know a very big question, take your time)
22- Do you have any birth marks? How about scars? Care to share how you got them?
If yes, what kind? (Clitoral, Vaginal, G-Spot. Anal, Squirting, A-Spot, Cervix, Breast/Nipple, Touching, non- Touching/Mental)
16- Can we talk about your health history? Have you had any surgeries? Any broken bones?
42~ What’s your biggest regret in life?
Would you allow me to shave your legs? How about your pubic hair? How about shower sex?
75~ If your partner wants an orgasm/have sex when you don't desire to have sex, how do you plan to deal with their needs?
28~ What are some things that turn on? What is your biggest turn on?
Do you like the “69” position? Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?
5- What’s your favorite movie genre? What’s your favorite movie of all time? How many times have you watched it?
*** Questions about Relationships/Past ***
90~ Have you ever had sex in a Pool or Hot Tub? Would you?
Are you willing to help and encourage your partner to fulfill their fantasies and desires?
41~ What are you best at in bed? What do you think you are not so good at? Anything you want to get good at?
Get this wrong and this could mean the end… :-) some funny, some not…
14- What's your favorite dessert? Do you a least favorite?
*** What’s Your Favorite…? ***
48~ Do you have any siblings? Are you close to your family?
* Give a rating for each one (0-100)
2~ How old were you when you got to 2nd base? (Tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the clothes genital contact) Who? Care to Share?
40~ If you could go back in time, and relive your life, with the knowledge you have now, what age would you go back to and why?
How many partners have you had oral sex with? Who? Care to Share?
If yes, what?
77~ What are your thoughts on swapping or swinging or group sex? Have you ever? Care to Share?
What have you learned about me that was new and/or surprising?
13~ Is there a difference between, making love, having sex, and fucking?
15- What's your favorite saying? What word or phrase is your least favorite?
24- What celebrities would you use your hall pass on? How about just dinner, or just hanging out with you?
53~ How much can you tell me about the one thing you are most passionate about?
48~ Have you ever paid or been paid for sex?
Would you read them together?
52~ Are you willing to make “those types” of bets with your partner?
92~ Have you ever had or have an STD? How many? What was it?
17- What’s your favorite holiday? What’s your least favorite?
85~ If I gave you a “Free Pass” for you to do anything to me for one hour, knowing that no matter what you did,
35~ Do you like playing music in the background or silence? Is there a sexy song that tends to get you in the mood?
5- What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on? How about, what turns you off?
How well do you know me? And some of your thoughts about me
What do you dislike about me? I asked you to be 100% honest.